Friday, April 1, 2011

" Everything seemed to freeze at that very instant when......."

She was waiting for her friend  to come down... "Why is she taking so much time?"... And while she sat wondering, as to what her friend was up to...... She saw him.
And there he was.....
The same as ever.....
Walking with 2 friends..... wearing a black jacket..... joking around....Cell phone in one hand, and glares in another
She feverently hoped, he would not see her.
 But Alas!
" Just ignore me! Just ignore me.... Don't look at me please..!!" was all she prayed....


Their eyes met, and everything seemed to freeze at the very instant.........


( Oh, I know this sounds damn 'filmy' but really, it's difficult to explain what happened, but this more or less explains it)


She remembered the time they shared together.... The way they used to  compose music together....the way they used to study together....always come first.... Play basketball together...(He didn't ALWAYS lose, maybe there were a few lucky times he must have won :P)  All those memories came flooding back... and time seemed at a standstill....


Have you ever had such an experience, that you suddenly come face to face with someone.... with whom you haven't spoken since ages for reasons you'd rather not recollect.. But someone, with whom you really want to speak... but then, you don't know what to say.....  and then, suddenly, that person just materializes before you? If yes, then you know exactly what I'm talking about.  That is exactly what happened.


It was more than a year... since they'd seen each other, or spoken to each other...... And then, meeting in this manner.... was more than a shock.... She was speechless.. and I guess, so was he. But then, realization struck  and they both looked away.... But, somehow.... In that fraction of a second... when their gaze met,she felt as though he wanted to say something.... But, He Never said it.
And, that was the end of it. He walked on, and so did she.


Misunderstandings and prejudices create rifts between relations.... and the longer they last.... deeper are the cracks......
Someone made that mistake... and doubted the other one...... and both of them suffer. 

I've heard, that communication is the easiest way to solve problems. You just have to go and speak  out your feelings.. as simple as that. Because, later,you never know, whether you'll ever get that chance again..... whether she'll listen to you again....or even so, whether you'll even meet again. Nothing is permanent. And, sometimes... that silence could also be misinterpreted..... and so, it's always better to clear the doubts, before they culminate into something worse.....
And, Never take anyone for granted. Because, one moment, they're there... and the other.... everything just dissapears...... I'd heard... that  " absence makes the heart grow fonder".... But, Why do you want to test it?


Many times, we don't realize, that by believing  something someone tells us, without even verifying the truth..... we are  giving up on that trust.   
All relations need ONE foundation, and that is TRUST. When you're friends with someone.... you have to trust. Without that, everything is meaningless and baseless....


So, right now, if you're thinking about someone you should have at least heard out, before taking a hasty decision..... then think back.  - Because, " When you trust someone, do so completely. In the end, You 'll either have a very good friend... Or a very good Lesson". 

2 comments:

  1. Oh my god..! this is amazing...
    The way you analyze incidents in your's and your friends' lives, and interpret things, its just amazing...
    and once again, you should write a novel.. you have that ability to engage readers with quality pieces of writings...!

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  2. awsm post once again... d same hpnd wid dat day.. u knw... :PP nwaz keep on writing...!! :D B)

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